Girls like sex too podcast

Girls like sex too podcast

Hey y’all,

I’m back with Girls like sex too but I’m coming at y’all with a podcast version coming 8/8/18 @7pm!

The blog was a hit and I surprisingly got a lot of great feedback from women AND men!

So by popular demand, I’m here giving y’all the real, raw scoop on women having sexual FREEDOM and I’m bringing my ladies onboard for this one. Continue reading “Girls like sex too podcast”

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Nas & Kelis

Nas & Kelis

This post is NOT JUST about Nas and Kelis BUT, their situation has triggered me to discuss some issues that I feel are important within the black community. Nas and Kelis (the nature of their relationship, whether true or false) will represent other black couples who ALSO experience TOXIC behavior such as physical abuse or any other kind of abuse that could be detrimental to ones being.  Continue reading “Nas & Kelis”

Pay the price to live the life: Mia Banks Pt1

Pay the price to live the life: Mia Banks Pt1

I’m nervous as fuck sitting in this lobby, I’ve only been waiting about 5 minutes but shit, it felt like 20. Every man that walked past me stared and every one of them was white. They looked struck when they saw me as if they’ve never seen a black girl around these parts, lol I could tell they were feeling me though. Many looked and smiled at me but there was one that really caught my attention. He was older, early-mid 40’s but fine. He got off the elevator with a briefcase in one hand and coffee in the other, he was tall, olive complexion and had slick back salt and pepper hair, I even peeped the Rolex too, Continue reading “Pay the price to live the life: Mia Banks Pt1”

Part two: Why SHE won’t cuff you …

Part two: Why SHE won’t cuff you …

The bottom line is that we don’t got time for your games, the disappointment, the heartbreak, the up and down of emotions, nor the mental capacity to juggle you and our goals collectively.

The idea of being black is hard, now add being a woman to the equation. It gets even more difficult. I feel like naturally, we are at the bottom of the barrel so if we want to succeed we have to fight harder than anyone else does, and it says a lot about you if you’re fighting for what you want, going that extra mile every day, even through mental and spiritual breakdowns to ultimately live that extraordinary life. Continue reading “Part two: Why SHE won’t cuff you …”

WHY HE WONT CUFF YOU

WHY HE WONT CUFF YOU

You like him… he likes you… but he won’t cuff you.

You’re confused because things are good, you have good times, good sex and a cool bond. You feel as though you are the whole package, how could he pass you up right?

Maybe there was a reason you got passed up. Let’s be real. It’s always them, never us, right?

Looking back I can say I used to play the victim, putting everything on the other person but forgetting I played a part in allowing whatever was happening to me. How can you be mad at someone for not responding to you in a timely fashion or talking to someone else when you don’t have a title yet? That person is free to do what they want without answering you REGARDLESS of your “bond.” Some feel entitled once they give the person they are messing around with the goods but no, it doesn’t work like that.

If you wanted rules and regulations you should have laid that foundation down first instead of getting intimate and thinking him respecting your feelings was a requirement because you gave him some. Continue reading “WHY HE WONT CUFF YOU”