It’s generational, understandable, but when will we let it go? When will we love ourselves enough not to fear the next woman? My accomplishments make you reflect on the ones you haven’t started? My beauty makes you uncomfortable?
I can’t relate. I’ve never been the one…
I’ve always had open arms around you salty ass bitches.
EVEN WHEN I PEEPED I STILL SHOWED LOVE. Ain’t no hate in my body. I LOVE to see my sisters doing the damn thing. Like yas sis, get money, yas sis travel, yas sis get married, yas sis open up shop! YASSSSSSSS!
There was females I didn’t necessarily like in high school but that was YEARS AGO and I ain’t holding no kiddie grudges. I’m under your pic like “Aww you’re so pretty sis”
Fuck you mean!!? If I see the next woman winning or feel like I like what I see I’ma let you know! WHETHER I KNOW YOU PERSONALLY OR NOT.
“I’ma do that anyway cuz that’s just how I am”
Ya’ll vibe just screams “I’M MAD and sadly ya’ll can’t even hide it!
Ladies, have you ever met a woman and wanted to be cool with her and then you start talking and you realize by just looking at her face that she big mad?
I see right through ya’ll.
BUT, for some weird reason in the past I’ve tolerated female friends who ENVIED ME FOR YEARS. It’s like I peep, but in the back of my mind I’m like nah, I’m bugging because I didn’t want to believe it. If you a REAL one, there will be no jealously, no competition, or hate etc between us. Real friends root for each other, hype each other up, support each other and LOVE each other.
Ya’ll can’t even share a damn Facebook post…
WHAT THE FUCK!
So we had got a new girl at my job and I was telling her about my website and she was like, “Okk, I’ll definetly check it out, I’m share it on facebook and all that too.”
I wasn’t necessarily happy that she was sharing it but more thankful that she even had the mindset that to want to help me you know? Thats’ so dope to me when you meet other females that just wanna see you win, even a better feeling when they are STRANGERS.
But, nah foreal tho, speaking on behalf of all my creatives, why is it that our “friends” don’t show us love to our craft? WHY WE GOTTA ASK??? Cause I mean, I’m expecting support to be an automatic quality of our friendship, but that’s just me though…
I feel like if you have those kinds of friends they not really your friends. More like your enemy.
Am I being dramatic? I hope not because I’m a deep thinker and I pull back layers on everything.
So if you claiming you somebody friend and you DON’T support their craft, vision etc then you a hater point blank period. YOU SEE IT, CLICK THE DETAILS, EXIT OUT OF IT BUT SHARE EVERYTHING ELSE. YOU LOOK AT MY PICTURES AND SCROLL PAST THEM THEN TELL ME WHEN YOU SEE ME YOU LIKED MY OUTFIT. Deep down inside you hate my vision, my dreams etc which means you hate ME.
YOU CAN’T TRUST THOSE KINDS OF PEOPLE.
It’s love or nothing.
You a opp.
The worst of them all is the females who simply hate you over A MAN. And most times he DUSTY ANYWAYS!
Ya’ll be fighting over liars and cheaters and you ready to fight the next woman to win that???
Men have the bro code, you know, “Bros over hoes” and they honor that shit. Why don’t us females have that same mentality? Iv’e had friends choose a man, (that ain’t even THEIR MAN) over our friendship! THIS THE SAME MAN YOU CRYING OVER SIS. THE SAME MAN YOU CALLING ME TO VENT AND GET ADVICE ABOUT.
But the moment he tell your goofy ass he outside you dipping off on me,
ONLY FOR HIM TO NOT EVEN CUFF YOU IN THE END.
I’m just saying doe….
Nah foreal, we in this shit together, I mean that’s how it SHOULD BE. If you need me I’M THERE, and I expect you to do the same! I’m not letting no temporary man come between our friendship because men COME AND GO.
And like I said, most times he dusty anyways.
Conclusively, we REALLY need to start coming together instead of hating on one another or breaking one another down. That shit isn’t cool, we are literally ALL WE GOT. Instead of hating or envying the next woman why don’t you instead put your feelings aside and see how you can get like her. She got clear skin, long hair, good credit, a husband, get to know her and understand her, maybe you can learn something. Anything I know I’m MORE than happy to share with my sisters. I will tell a female in a second this is a wig lmaoo and I will definitely tell you where I got it from too.
NOT ALL PRETTY GIRLS ARE STUCK UP.
There’s a lot of women out there who I feel act the way they do because of their own insecurities and a lack of confidence. If you really feel that way you need to make some friends that’s gonna boost you, but you need to DROP THE HATE AND BEGIN TO LOVE FIRST.